A while ago I learned to not stress out over things too much. While some may call it a lack of responsibility, I have a different take on it.
It seems like nobody has time these days because of our fulfilled life (from school to kids). I ask to stop and think next time you're frustrated or upset.
Could there be a possibility whatever bothers you happened for a good reason?
This is just a matter of reasoning;
you can't find your keys-->you're late--> accident of the freeway happens.
If you were on time, perhaps you could be involved (directly or not).
This concept also applies to relationships. There's a reason behind actions, whether they are obvious to you or known only to the person who performs that action. Sometimes you say that there's no good reason why people do things. Yes, it is true, but keep in mind that what doesn’t make sense to you, makes perfect sense to others.
Also, it is sometimes difficult to verbally explain reasoning behind actions, even if the explanation is clear in the mind. Other people may find it difficult to explain their reasoning.
Bottom line is, whatever happens-happens for a reason
Or for my optimists out there:
Whatever happens- Happens for the better (that's the one I like)
So next time you're angry or sad, take time to think things through...Don't feel sorry for yourself, but really think about the line of events.
Remember: there's always somebody worse off then you are so appreciate what you have.
Yours,  Labels: life, relationship |
